Justin Steven Wigham

Thank You Justin for sharing the last week of your life with your family, no conditions what so ever, you managed to spend quality time with everyone...family or friend you were there for each and everyone of us.  We all laughed with you and have some very special memories we hold very dear to our hearts. You are missed beyond words, although we hold your humor, smile, heart and unconditional love you gave in our hearts each and every day.  Until we are together again, we look forward to your love you give each and every day that passes.  I don't think I have had a day go by without you touching me since you have been gone.  We will be together again soon my dear boy, Keep sending me hugs until I get there my boy hugs and kisses,  Auntie Chrissie Loves You!!!

I remember the way your eyes sparkle. I remember your bear hugs,and your smile. I remember the way your lip made like this elvis dip when i pushed your cheeks together. your hands, your hairy chest haha. your blond spot on the back of your head that you told everyone you were kissed by an angel. your laugh, cry, snore, the sound of your voice. the feeling i got when i first saw you. the feeling i got when you would come home from work and i'd been waiting for you. the time you let me put make up on you cuz i was in a bad mood.

I remember every little thing about you. and I'm so glad. I miss you so much. I miss the confort you gave me, when ever things weren't going so great I always new that when I got home you would be sitting on my front door step waiting, and I would just forget about my bad day. you always made everything brighter. I wish we could turn back time. I will always love you.

I have no memories of Justin.  I never met him.  I see his picture everyday of my life and have gotten used to his huge smile. I have met many of those in his life and all of them paint a picture of an incredible young man who made a broad and wonderful stroke with his brush while he was here in this life.   Nothing lasts forever except the love of someone like Justin in the hearts and minds of those that knew him.  There is a particular picture of him that reminds me daily to love this life and remember that we are only here for a little while and its a good idea to smile often.  

I have so many memories, Justin was not only my son but my best friend too. Justin was my rock, He helped me though some hard times and He was always there for me and I was always there for him. He would always ask me to BBQ for all of his friends. I always loved to spend as much time with him as I could and now that I look back I should of spent more time with him. I Wish I only new that our time together would be so short. I remember Justin, Josh, and Avery and Ivan playing basketball out front of our house. I remember all of the camping trips to Bucks lake and going fishing in the mornings before breakfast, When we got our boat watching him wake board. He was pretty good!! As a father I could not ask for a better son. I remember when it was just him and I Living in our town house. He could always make me laugh, all those T-ball games and pee wee football. When I coached I was so proud of him even if he was not the star of the team. When he was a senior in high school and was the Quarterback and Linebacker. Carrie and I and Grandpa Fites and Grandma Fites Loved to watch him play, He became one of the star players. We all miss watching him play. In Anderson he threw for all most 300 yards in that game. He still holds that record at Foothill. All of his buddies coming over to the house and then and hanging out and then going up to Gavins house. I sure miss those days!! All of his costumes for Halloween, how did he think up all of them. Justin was just a fun person to be around. But most of all I miss his Hugs. Justin Never left the house with out giving me a hug good by. It started about when he was a Senior in high school and he never left the house with out giving me a hug. At first I was a little uneasy with it but after a month I really liked it and now I miss it. Now I give those hugs to everbody even if there uneasy with it, I think they will grow to like them to. We all miss you Bud!!

memories wow I have so many but my favorite ones  will always be the ones that i had after being gone in the military and comin home on leave and getting to spend the whole weekend with my cuz he really made me feal like i was home what a great guy i miss you bud