Justin Steven Wigham

Josh Edwards is getting married, and I just remembered the time you guys were playing roller-blade basketball out front.  Well, something was bound to go wrong!  It was getting dark, and you hit a rock & fell & broke your front tooth in 1/2!! Came into the house grinning and said "hey mom, look what happened!"  I about fainted, it looked so horrible!  One emergency dentist visit later, you were fitted with a temp that you could remove if needed.  The next day at school, you had a substitute and you messed with her, you naughty eigth-grader!  She'd look at you and you'd grin, then when she turned her back, you'd take your took off!  When she looked at you again, you grinned with your tooth half missing!  I'm sure all your buds were in on it too!  Justin, I loved the way you could just love life and grab the moment and run with it!  I will hold your fun memories close and remember how well you lived!  All my love, Mom

Hey, Remember when we would be in the car driving to Fairfield and I would say an animal and you would make the sound of it. I think you were about two. I still remember that. I was taking you to the Baby sitters and then going to work. Everyday we would do that on our way there. So many memories that go through my head every day. We sure had some fun, All the Bucks lake Camping trips!! Every year except the last two. It just wont be they same with out you there. We are going this next year for sure. I will get the boat fixed this year so I will be able to get up every morning and fish like we always did. I love you!! Dad

Hey babe heard this song and it keeps replaying in my head.

 

If there were no words

no way to speak

I would still hear you

If there were no tears

no way to feel inside

I'd still feel for you

Even if the sun refused to shine

Even if romance ran out of rhyme

you would still have my heart

until the end of time

your all I need my love

All of my life

I have been waiting for

all you give to me

You've opened my eyes

and showed me how to love Unselfishly

I've dreamed of this a thousand times before

In my dreams I couldn't love you more

I will give you my heart

until the end of time

your all I need my love

Maybe we can't see you but you hold all of our hearts, And I know your with us! I LOVE YOU

 just here  at work ... i get here early in the morning befor anyone arrives and tumble to get my workout.... i bring in my led-zeppelin cd and rock out thinkin about my cousin!!! just to share one of my fav songs that makes me think of him most with all of you ... here are the lyrics... i think they are beatiful!!!!

 

There's a lady who's sure all that glitters is gold
And she's buying a stairway to heaven
And when she gets there she knows if the stores are closed
With a word she can get what she came for

Woe oh oh oh oh oh
And she's buying a stairway to heaven

There's a sign on the wall but she wants to be sure
And you know sometimes words have two meanings
In a tree by the brook there's a songbird who sings
Sometimes all of our thoughts are misgiven

Woe oh oh oh oh oh
And she's buying a stairway to heaven

There's a feeling I get when I look to the west
And my spirit is crying for leaving
In my thoughts I have seen rings of smoke through the trees
And the voices of those who stand looking

Woe oh oh oh oh oh
And she's buying a stairway to heaven

And it's whispered that soon, if we all call the tune
Then the piper will lead us to reason
And a new day will dawn for those who stand long
And the forest will echo with laughter

And it makes me wonder

If there's a bustle in your hedgerow
Don't be alarmed now
It's just a spring clean for the May Queen

Yes there are two paths you can go by
but in the long run
There's still time to change the road you're on

Your head is humming and it won't go in case you don't know
The piper's calling you to join him
Dear lady can't you hear the wind blow and did you know
Your stairway lies on the whispering wind

And as we wind on down the road
Our shadows taller than our soul
There walks a lady we all know
Who shines white light and wants to show
How everything still turns to gold
And if you listen very hard
The tune will come to you at last
When all are one and one is all
To be a rock and not to roll
Woe oh oh oh oh oh
And she's buying a stairway to heaven

There's a lady who's sure all that glitters is gold
And she's buying a stairway to heaven
And when she gets there she knows if the stores are closed
With a word she can get what she came for

And she's buying a stairway to heaven, uh uh uh.

Oh the momories, I had the pleasure of having Justin live with me a few times throughout his life.  We lived in Ceres Ca, shortly after Matt and Carrie got married, what a great time we had as we shared our home with the ones we loved most.  Even Beaver kitty came along.  Justin was such a joy to have around, his smile and sparkling eyes kept everyone wanting more.  He was so easy never complained and was the life of the party even when he was 4.  A few years after that we all decided to go on an adventure.  David and I, Matt, Carrie & Justin decided to move to the wonderful town of Redding CA... We were happy to be near our eldest brother and sister Robert and Debbie and their two boys, Jason and Brandon.  Matt and Carrie lived in Redding for about 6 months and decided to plant their roots there.  They put their money down on a home and moved in with us until their home was built.  Those were some of the best times of my life.  I had no children at the time and LOVED my neices and nephews, young at heart and could still keep up with them.  We would ride bikes through the near by fields and creeks.  It was a short distance between our home and Uncle Roberts, I would ride my bike withJustin to meet Jason and Brandon half way to come over and hang out.  Justin and I would make a plan, Brandon or Jason would run cuz they only had one bike, which ever ran we would ride our bikes as fast as we could and tell the runner the boogie man was in the bushes.  You could hear Justins laugh a mile away, he thought it was the funniest thing to scare his cousins.  His soft side would be in the mornings, Maddie and Justin shared a room at our house.  Mom and Dad were smart!  Maddie Jane would wake up everymorning as if an alarm went off, 5:30 AM.  She would rattle her crib and say "Justin, I Want Out..."  "Justin, I Want Out..." rattle rattle, "JUSTIN,I WANT OUT!" He would finally give in and say "OK,Maddie I am coming!"  God Bless that sweet boy! He loved his baby sister so much... I loved going to Justins school to help out.  The time I remember most is when they had a Cinco De Mayo party and had to do the Mexican Hat Dance,he practriced every night. He was so excited for the day to come, little did we know he was no Dumby, he chose Julie to be his partner.  She was beautiful & as sweet as can be he was the proudest boy in the room. As he grew into a young adult the stories continued, I love being at our family parties with all of my neices and nephews.  They are the light of my life each and everyone.  They have all been raised at some point by Auntie Chrissie and I cherish every moment with each and everyone of them as if they were my own.  Justin, my heart hurts so bad that you will not be with us, the next family get together just won't be the same without you .  You will always hold a special place in my heart sweet boy, I hold close the time we spent together over July 4th weekend, Lord thank you for that time.  Your giggle as a young child & young adult still echos in my ear, your smile, twinkly eyes and loving heart will be missed more than words can describe.  I do know one thing, you are still with us in spirit the signs are there when we least expect it, you will never be forgotten.  Help us be strong, give your Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister, Grandma and Tara a little glimmer of you when you can. You are loved so so much!

ALWAYS, Your Auntie Chrissie

I LOVE YOU,SWEET BOY! XOXO